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I've decided to become a perfect high value robot clone.

This sounds exhausting...because it is.

Crazy hearing Todd say "fw that" ☠️☠️☠️☠️ I'm cryinf

Push and pull guys, push and pull. Create emotional spikes like a rollercoaster. Being nice and agreeable all the time is boring. If you can tease a girl playfully it's so much fun 😊 Great stuff as always Todd :)

Can you do a video on rave game? I remember you made one back in the days. I fucking suck at raves lol

Bro even swooned the student with that last one 😂

On Day 1017 on Semen Retention. Infinity more to go!

Todd’s arms are leveling up

one thing i've learnt is that more you show you care about them, less they care about you. this is not just for relationship, this attitude is also needed to be friends with girls also.

Keep up todd

this is very informative

See this is what I hate about dating in 2024, it’s all the mental warfare games men and women feel they HAVE TO play with each other, if I love you to death and I wanna be with you, I just wanna be honest about that and TELL you, you’re supposed to be my woman, not my enemy or my mental competition. If we love each other, let’s just be honest about it and be together, it suppose to be very simple. I also feel like we only feel the need to play these mental power games, when we’re trying to be with someone we feel doesn’t love us the way we love them. A girl who truly loves you, will lick you toes for you if you ask her, so she’ll DEFINITELY be ecstatic about you asking her to be your girlfriend.

Everyone reply with your best openers ;)

Idk where I'd be without the content

I mean...Aren't these signs all just common sense that every man should innately know universally? Lol

Love this.... especially glad that you emphasize that it's a mindset for LIFE. We all fuck up and more importantly we carry the feeling of having fucked up/ guilt and women sense it and THAT is what leads to a downward spiral 😅

Sometimes a girl start walking backwards towards me so she can dance closer with her back turned against me. My problem is: should i grab her hips or should i turn her around? I always freeze and do nothing because i'm not sure what that means... Why does'nt she face me instead? And then she is gone.

💯 great advice. If u know the girl isn’t into you, you act way more confidant.

Females annoy me now once something become to hard to get it become irritating to me I wish I didn’t feel that way though

away from game, i think a good way of fixing this problem is being a good conversationalist

💯 talking to a 9 or 10. The pressure gets too much.

David DeAngelo is the boss. Love that guy. Great video T

I plan to do 10,000 approaches. I'll let you guys know if it's worth it when I get there.

Done both and didn't work. every girl is different...

Smack in the face, got it...

14:30 Glad teens can recognize good fashion still

Todd, you are going grey, LOL! xD

Would pushing her in the pool be considered a push/pull technique, or does it only apply when you also pull her out? Why ask two questions when you can ask one long-form question with two parts?

The problem is, I don't find interactions with women to be fun. It's a drag!

C. Can't tell.

Love it, Todd. Thank you

You see with approach anxiety is it best to build yourself up and start easy then increase the difficulty

Hey Todd, do you have a girlfriend?

Wow, I've asked a woman out in decades.

Questions like these come from a place of extreme insecurity. Everybody of us have been there, to overcome this problem you need to focus on your confidence, work on yourself, improve yourself, create a mindset of abundance and you will naturally act confidently without the need of looking for signals that the girl likes you. The mindset you must have is: she likes me, I'm ok with that, she does not like me, I'm ok with that, whatever happens you must be ok with the situation, it must not shake you

The biggest mistake you can make is liking her back. Some of them will forgive that mistake but none will like it

Lol I’m here bc a girl gave me a paper saying she likes me and do I like her yes or no on the paper and I’m nervous bc I don’t know whether to put no or yeah

Fellas, the shit test I got was "you park so slow" when there was no issue with it, it might have even been faster and better than average. A few of these comments almost cost me to lose one of the most interesting, most feminine women I have ever known that's been a friend to me for about a year. We had a sexual connection from the start and recently went on a few dates. This was like our fourth date, like a proper full length date, and suddenly out of nowhere they just kept coming, every 10 minutes, dishing them out, dishing them out. I failed EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. By some miracle, I recovered the relationship a few days later after watching some of Todd's videos on here. And shoot, I still can't believe it, because she was gone, completely indifferent and no desire to even have basic conversation with me. It was down to a few messages a day of uh-huhs and yeps, completely mind-bending the sense of belief that I was good with handling women. I'm not gonna list them all but one of the first few was a compliance test, where she instantly critiqued my choice of beer and offered an alternative. It caught me off guard and I wasn't even aware it was happening, and I already had a general knowledge of what shit tests are but haven't reviewed in years... Crafty lil specimen she is, but I clawed my way back, which was INCREDIBLY difficult, as I think I was in the death rattle stage of survival, yet somehow, with the help of a few of these videos, figured out a quick strategy of how I was gonna word things next time we talked a little, and when I got the opportunity to talk to her on the phone, not text, because text would be even harder, I managed to turn the perspective of things around in my favor, in a nutshell just saying that I was "aware of her little smart quips, and I liked a few of them because they were funny, but the others were offhand and obnoxious, and I just didn't feel like hurting her feelings that night." IT WORKED, man, it actually worked. Don't try to follow my advice on using that though, because I have no idea if it worked because I just got lucky and she still had enough feelings left for me to hear me out or if that can actually be tweaked into a decent recovery strategy for post-failed shit test situations. One thing I specifically made sure to do though was to just get the words in about her "smarting up" with me, make it casual and nonchalant, critique it (shit test the shit test) but don't make a big deal out of it like it's emotionally draining you (mention a few were entertaining or funny) and then change the subject of conversation to something simple and light, and move on. If she asks something about the shit tests, answer it fast, mention that you don't mind her being smart with you and that you can handle it, AND CHANGE THE SUBJECT AGAIN. What worked for me is not making a seminar about it or make any indication that you researched this in any way, but maybe it's okay to just mention that you're aware that this is how women sometimes test a man's character, blah blah blah. I know that this would've devastated me emotionally/mentally because I'm the kind of person where I don't mind losing whatever to a mistake or a screw up, it's normal, it's natural. But when it's something that could've easily been avoided, that you should've easily been aware of yet somehow still managed to screw up, it makes me feel like crap for weeks, man. And every one of her shit tests were simple where I could come up with the answer on the spot 2 seconds or less, ya know? "What made you think choosing that color of paint was a good idea?" Dude, my car is dark gray man. Dark gray is practically not even a color, but the lack of color lmao. So did say something just like that, "Dark gray isn't really a color, it's the absence of color," leading to a completely mind-f'd shit tester, philosophically gusted and busted, or something like "Because they were doing a $4.99 off special exactly that color, and only that shade, so you know, I had to." Did I say those or something similar, did I? I mean, I'm aware of this stuff, so did I say it? F NO I DID NOT! I said, "What do you mean? It's a good basic color. What color would you have gotten?" And then I listed which colors (or lack thereof) I typically like on cars, and why, which can be interpreted as you feeling the need to justify and explain yourself, like you're talking to mommy about why you make the choices that you do. And if that is your intention or not, it doesn't even matter, it still screws you. Because I literally didn't feel like I was appeasing her or caving in to her, I was just trying to get to know what colors SHE THINKS look good on cars so I could get to know her better, show interest in her or whatever, but to her you just readily submitted your self-governing power to her. SO, beyond shit tests, if you respond like this sometimes, like I know I do, then probably changing the entire way of how you answer questions with women is a good idea. Like only answer questions in 3 set formats that you know are foolproof, at least until you get to know them better and can ease off a bit. How are you gonna lead her and your kids if you cave in at the mere mention of suggestions? Not even directions or instructions, or request, simply suggestions. How are you gonna survive a tough situation where you will need to think fast to save your family, or get them resources to survive? Are you gonna ask for mammy's suggestions? How are you gonna respond when a big biker steps in front of you and tells you to get on your knees and clean the floor with a dish rag while sobbing and crying out for mammy to suggest things.... You get the point lmao. To women, this is repulsive, guys. Never fall back into the frame of feeling the need to explain your answers to anyone, but especially women. This is what I'm gonna start working on because it's not a choice, it's more like a requirement. You have to make these changes or you're screwed, at least dating-wise. Now that I think about it more, by answering her shit test question with "What do you mean? It's a good basic color. What color would you have gotten?" I hit the trifecta of special retardedness, which ironically takes skilled effort. One, I tried to clarify what she means, as if it's important. Two, I felt the need to justify the color and explain myself to my overlord. (Again, doesn't matter if you feel that she is or not, maybe this is just how you talk, to her it still seems like you're submitting to her leadership.) And three, I've activated the trifecta of retardedness because, since I already checked off the two other marks, it instantly qualifies the third question as an inquiry for guided compliance. You're literally asking her to give you a suggestion for future reference, technically speaking. So it seems like you're offering her your compliance ahead of time even without instruction LMAO. The reassurance-seeking "What do you mean?" as if trying to make sure if that actually thinks that or hoping she doesn't (AKA "please like the color of my car, baby please") AND IN ADDITION to what seems like insecurities about your choice by stating "It's a good basic color," inherently justifying your color choice and listing the reason why (again, doesn't matter if you're insecure about it or not) you picked out that color years ago, is a horrible shit test fail. I think answering a shit test question this way is probably like failing 3 of them in 1, 3-in-1 Trifecta Special. One statement, and you can write pages about it and keep breaking it down, and I'm sure it's like on a spectrum for women too, where like failing one shit test with one woman will like drop attraction level by 40%, another one maybe by 20%, for whatever reason. Obviously not a science where you can measure exactly, more of an art, but one thing is for sure, if you routinely fail any of them, two or five or 10, you are well on your way to be cucked or ducked, and there's no ifs or buts about it. Simply put, women are a language processor and strong, masculine men don't talk that way, so learn a new language and train yourself to speak only in that manner, or you know, just improve the way you talk to women to a point where it limits the inherent possible submissive and favors direct actionable language. I'm gonna write a book about this in a few years, because I'm coming up with this shit as I go, but at least half of it sounds good LMAO. Work is starting though so I gotta wrap it up. I can't believe how neurotic it can make you feel to be breaking down all of this, it feels so unnatural and wrong in a way, but at the same time it's necessary. Plus, sometimes it's hard to tell if you're overanalyzing some of these concepts or not, if you're generally on the right track or not, and I bet some people have lost their mind or experienced psychosis after a few years of overanalyzing and developing these type of concepts. So I have mad respect for guys who teach this stuff and I'd rather let them do the work and pick up their book and learn. Massive brains of steel, massive power of will.

Essentially, a girl who is into you will make it easy for you to hang out and spend time with her and make it easy for you to ask her out. Unfortunately most girls aren't direct and you have to read the signs. You got this kings 👑👑

Brother Master Todd, I am forever indebted. Your videos on testing literally saved me out of the deepest friend zone depths of one of the most beautiful, exceptionally feminine, and kind women I've ever met-a total I knew for about a year and recently started dating-after a single TERRIBLE night of failing almost every test left and right. This just happened recently, so please excuse my rambling, but I'll try to describe the general gist of it. Out of 10 girls I know closely, she is the only one I never wanted to lose; the rest can come and go as they wish. But sure enough, it was the one I cherished the most that had to do me like this. I was startled that one day of failing a variety of tests would bring such a KIND, CARING, SWEET woman and turn her into a completely distant, unaffectionate person, suddenly talking to me from a place of contempt and slight apathy. I was sitting there, my eyes wide and mind in awe at how fast the shift happened. It's like she went from talking to me like a good friend and romantic interest-with warmth and affection-to talking to me like I'm her son or junior coworker who's terrible at his job. I am in a state of disbelief still (but now relieved) that 11 months of getting to know each other so intimately were straight into the trash. I'm saying sometimes talking daily for weeks for hours through this time, like it's nothing. Just knowing how close we are, how we are so solid, I thought I was foolproof from anything like this. I now feel a mix of complex emotions: startled, grateful, knowledgeable, confirmed, capable, saddened, regretful, and a whole lot more, but most notably, I feel changed. I literally feel changed to the core after this experience, and I'm never going back to the old ways. This is the one experience that could have done this, so maybe it was divine intervention or something, because with any other woman it wouldn't have had this intense effect on me, to finally entirely persuade me that this is gospel truth. This is the only woman in my life that could have done this to me that would have had this effect on me, and she did do it and did it so well too. It was so fast and subtly slipped into the rest of the conversation that it just slipped past any kind of alert/alarm in my head since I'm aware women will try to challenge you playfully at times. So I'm generally aware of tests for over a decade and already believed it's true to some degree, but I didn't know it's explicit and pervasive, this serious. This is at the core of women's being; this is their guiding mechanism, their GPS with no alternatives. I didn't know that this would switch up the most loving, kind woman you've ever met into a cold person looking at you in a bored and apathetic tone, like it's a chore to even be around you, and talking down to you. I will never doubt any of this again and went online and instantly bought a book I've put off buying about dating, and I will get something from you. What's a good book that encompasses everything about game well on Amazon? I have to get at least one as a token of my appreciation for saving me from inevitable heartbreak, because at the very least, I want to keep this woman in my life as a friend, but it got to the point where she would only respond to me once or twice a day, like to a homeless dog, throwing scraps. At the same time, I am saddened to the core of my being that it has to be this way-that we have to align to this way of doing things because women's respect and attraction to a man is so anchored on this. Why couldn't this just not exist? This is the wildest emotional type experience I've ever had in my life. Just seeing that shift happen over a few hours in person, it literally was like watching a nightmare scenario unfold of a person you cherish so much just simply turning into an enemy who tolerates you. But after screwing up less than a week ago, I managed to recover it by mentioning that I knew what she was up to nonchalantly and then passing a few tests in the text message conversation. The shift didn't happen right away. At first, she was still kinda cold and condescending, but then came around by the end of the day, and we ended up having a conversation, talked about hooking up, and made plans for when we're both off work next. I literally have not experienced such an emotional rollercoaster of mind-blown in a thousand years. I am grateful from the bottom of my heart for people like you, my dude. You are that guy, pal. You really are. This also undoubtedly changed the way I look at women. I still love them and enjoy being around them immensely, their femininity being an endless river of soothing relaxation, it's like healing energy or something, but they can never be a friend for you like a good guy friend is, so stop even trying to make that happen. I thought I could treat her like a good friend and be completely at ease with her, not having to pay attention to all that bullshit, thinking, "She is beyond all that, too smart and too self-aware to let that kind of thing be her thing." But unfortunately, it looks like it's fixed in their DNA, in their biology, as tangible as the color of their eyes or the smoothness of their skin. Suddenly, I wanna connect to some divine entity and question them about this-for what reason they had to make human beings be like this? It seems like something that a machine-like mechanism would have almost, like an algorithm catching a keyword and spitting out an auto-response. Like we're androids or something, and I always intensely felt that humans are inherently human and not machine-like. So I'm experiencing a deep state of sadness and somber reflection from all this. I was a game believer who fell out, thought you could handle it without paying attention to any of this stuff, but now I'm a believer for life. Perhaps you don't have to immerse yourself on a deep intense level, but every man will only benefit from at least knowing the key points with a good level of understanding. I will now, at the very least, always check in every month or so to see what's new in the game-o-sphere so I'm not missing any new important developments. You are absolutely screwed if you are going in shooting in the dark, especially if you're not a natural. At this point, I'm convinced even natural players fail and stumble sometimes by screwing some of these things up too. And I'm a talker, always been; I'll talk to anyone, worked in sales and all that, read a lot, and know stuff, and she loves that about me and always told me how she finds me so interesting and loves that she can learn so much from me. And then, one day, just one day of failing a small bunch of "fitness" tests like little jokes about taking too long to park (when it wasn't long at all, I'm a great driver) was all it took to make a wonderful, massively feminine, playful and giggling, and at ease woman shift into a cold, indifferent person with no spark in their eyes looking back at me like she's an older sister babysitting a little stepbrother she never liked. I felt puzzled and alarmed/astounded, like, "Oh no, please, don't... Where is my flirty lively friend from just a few minutes ago!?" Because we've been friends a long time but we always felt sexually/romantically compatible about each other, and even had conversations about how awesome that is. So Todd, please take this as my speech of gratitude to you, and I'm glad I landed specifically on YOUR video, because some other videos would have not have explained it and drilled it so clearly into my mind. The look I see sometimes in your eyes shows wisdom from lessons learned in life, something you often see in men over 60 who have been through vast amounts of experiences in life, or you know, soldiers who have experienced lots of combat missions. It's a look you'd want to see in someone you'd taking advice from because it knows they've lived through something real, know pain, and more than likely understand what you're going through. <<I was trying to make that sound the least fruity-sounding as I could, but that's the best I could manage lol. I'm sure you get the point. But boy, I'm still processing the emotions of all of this. It feels like I'm landing in a plane that's just been through the most intense turbulence. Like, I'm not gonna die if I don't ever talk to her again, but as far as women, she is by far the most interesting, beautiful, and pretty much the most feminine from them all, and losing all of that to a random evening with a few questionable, curveball BS phrases thrown at you, it just seems like so much to lose over something so small and insignificant. Just why, just why? I'm breathing easy finally, but my mind still feels violated. Violated but relieved. I wasn't trying to make this so long but it just kept coming. I just had to share, I had to. Stay learning, my friends. This is the way.

Brother Todd, I am forever indebted. Your videos on testing literally saved me out of the deepest friend zone depths of one of the most beautiful, exceptionally feminine, and kind women I've ever met-a total I knew for about a year and recently started dating-after a single TERRIBLE night of failing almost every test left and right. This just happened recently, so please excuse my rambling, but I'll try to describe the general gist of it. Out of 10 girls I know closely, she is the only one I never wanted to lose; the rest can come and go as they wish. But sure enough, it was the one I cherished the most that had to do me like this. I was startled that one day of failing a variety of tests would bring such a KIND, CARING, SWEET woman and turn her into a completely distant, unaffectionate person, suddenly talking to me from a place of contempt and slight apathy. I was sitting there, my eyes wide and mind in awe at how fast the shift happened. It's like she went from talking to me like a good friend and romantic interest-with warmth and affection-to talking to me like I'm her son or junior coworker who's terrible at his job. I am in a state of disbelief still (but now relieved) that 11 months of getting to know each other so intimately were straight into the trash. I'm saying sometimes talking daily for weeks for hours through this time, like it's nothing. Just knowing how close we are, how we are so solid, I thought I was foolproof from anything like this. I now feel a mix of complex emotions: startled, grateful, knowledgeable, confirmed, capable, saddened, regretful, and a whole lot more, but most notably, I feel changed. I literally feel changed to the core after this experience, and I'm never going back to the old ways. This is the one experience that could have done this, so maybe it was divine intervention or something, because with any other woman it wouldn't have had this intense effect on me, to finally entirely persuade me that this is gospel truth. This is the only woman in my life that could have done this to me that would have had this effect on me, and she did do it and did it so well too. It was so fast and subtly slipped into the rest of the conversation that it just slipped past any kind of alert/alarm in my head since I'm aware women will try to challenge you playfully at times. So I'm generally aware of tests for over a decade and already believed it's true to some degree, but I didn't know it's explicit and pervasive, this serious. This is at the core of women's being; this is their guiding mechanism, their GPS with no alternatives. I didn't know that this would switch up the most loving, kind woman you've ever met into a cold person looking at you in a bored and apathetic tone, like it's a chore to even be around you, and talking down to you. I will never doubt any of this again and went online and instantly bought a book I've put off buying about dating, and I will get something from you. What's a good book that encompasses everything about game well on Amazon? I have to get at least one as a token of my appreciation for saving me from inevitable heartbreak, because at the very least, I want to keep this woman in my life as a friend, but it got to the point where she would only respond to me once or twice a day, like to a homeless dog, throwing scraps. At the same time, I am saddened to the core of my being that it has to be this way-that we have to align to this way of doing things because women's respect and attraction to a man is so anchored on this. Why couldn't this just not exist? This is the wildest emotional type experience I've ever had in my life. Just seeing that shift happen over a few hours in person, it literally was like watching a nightmare scenario unfold of a person you cherish so much just simply turning into an enemy who tolerates you. But after screwing up less than a week ago, I managed to recover it by mentioning that I knew what she was up to nonchalantly and then passing a few tests in the text message conversation. The shift didn't happen right away. At first, she was still kinda cold and condescending, but then came around by the end of the day, and we ended up having a conversation, talked about hooking up, and made plans for when we're both off work next. I literally have not experienced such an emotional rollercoaster of mind-blown in a thousand years. I am grateful from the bottom of my heart for people like you, my dude. You are that guy, pal. You really are. This also undoubtedly changed the way I look at women. I still love them and enjoy being around them immensely, their femininity being an endless river of soothing relaxation, it's like healing energy or something, but they can never be a friend for you like a good guy friend is, so stop even trying to make that happen. I thought I could treat her like a good friend and be completely at ease with her, not having to pay attention to all that bullshit, thinking, "She is beyond all that, too smart and too self-aware to let that kind of thing be her thing." But unfortunately, it looks like it's fixed in their DNA, in their biology, as tangible as the color of their eyes or the smoothness of their skin. Suddenly, I wanna connect to some divine entity and question them about this-for what reason they had to make human beings be like this? It seems like something that a machine-like mechanism would have almost, like an algorithm catching a keyword and spitting out an auto-response. Like we're androids or something, and I always intensely felt that humans are inherently human and not machine-like. So I'm experiencing a deep state of sadness and somber reflection from all this. I was a game believer who fell out, thought you could handle it without paying attention to any of this stuff, but now I'm a believer for life. Perhaps you don't have to immerse yourself on a deep intense level, but every man will only benefit from at least knowing the key points with a good level of understanding. I will now, at the very least, always check in every month or so to see what's new in the game-o-sphere so I'm not missing any new important developments. You are absolutely screwed if you are going in shooting in the dark, especially if you're not a natural. At this point, I'm convinced even natural players fail and stumble sometimes by screwing some of these things up too. And I'm a talker, always been; I'll talk to anyone, worked in sales and all that, read a lot, and know stuff, and she loves that about me and always told me how she finds me so interesting and loves that she can learn so much from me. And then, one day, just one day of failing a small bunch of "fitness" tests like little jokes about taking too long to park (when it wasn't long at all, I'm a great driver) was all it took to make a wonderful, massively feminine, playful and giggling, and at ease woman shift into a cold, indifferent person with no spark in their eyes looking back at me like she's an older sister babysitting a little stepbrother she never liked. I felt puzzled and alarmed/astounded, like, "Oh no, please, don't... Where is my flirty lively friend from just a few minutes ago!?" Because we've been friends a long time but we always felt sexually/romantically compatible about each other, and even had conversations about how awesome that is. So Todd, please take this as my speech of gratitude to you, and I'm glad I landed specifically on YOUR video, because some other videos would have not have explained it and drilled it so clearly into my mind. The look I see sometimes in your eyes shows wisdom from lessons learned in life, something you often see in men over 60 who have been through vast amounts of experiences in life, or you know, soldiers who have experienced lots of combat missions. It's a look you'd want to see in someone you'd taking advice from because it knows they've lived through something real, know pain, and more than likely understand what you're going through. <<I was trying to make that sound the least fruity-sounding as I could, but that's the best I could manage lol. I'm sure you get the point. But boy, I'm still processing the emotions of all of this. It feels like I'm landing in a plane that's just been through the most intense turbulence. Like, I'm not gonna die if I don't ever talk to her again, but as far as women, she is by far the most interesting, beautiful, and pretty much the most feminine from them all, and losing all of that to a random evening with a few questionable, curveball BS phrases thrown at you, it just seems like so much to lose over something so small and insignificant. Just why, just why? I'm breathing easy finally, but my mind still feels violated. Violated but relieved. I wasn't trying to make this so long but it just kept coming. I just had to share, I had to. Stay learning, my friends. This is the way.

Maybe the follow-up question: what's your view on men's sexuality? There are courses on woman's sexuality, and sometimes the results are quite impressive. Nothing close for men though. Can you share your ideas on that topic plz?!

Say hello to every girl when you randomly sitting. greet girl and say hi hows your day going. If she respond, have conversation. If she doesnt, just go about your day, not a big deal. Even if they dont respond, it doesnt hurt you. You dont have to have great convo, just open to be positive and say hi to make friend. Get involved in things, meet alot of people, and they will see where you will be good and passionate about. They will "accidently" see your best quality. Espeically where you can be leader and meet alot of people. Still be closing: get phone number and follow up. Dont push so hard, dont be needy, dont text ten time. Guard your reputation.

Say hi, hows your day going to every girl out there Say hi to stranger, get involved in things especially those that you are passionate and good at, especially where you will meet alot of people. Still close: get number, and follow up. Dont get butthurt and guard your reputation as well

Please make a video about “hot girl blasé” i need you bro

I've always had that philosophy because in my experience it seems i have a very good chance that a woman will like me IF i can spend enough time with her. The problem is that it feels borderline impossible to get those first fee dates. We're supposed to initiate everything yet we're demonized, shamed, and lambasted if it's unwanted. Which is what's so ridiculous.

guys can i ask out for a friendly meet up a girl who is in a long distance relationship with another dude? if she s currently bored and alone in the city hinting in her stories that she wanna hang out. any nonchalant ways to ask her out or should i just wait?

I tend to not care about girls and all women around me always like me, show signs of interest, but the moment I show interest in them and want to ask them out, the magic disappears and o get 180 degrees different reaction. What do I do wrong?

Damn. This is solid.

If a girl likes you, it will be very obvious. You should only put your effort into high IL women, if you have to question it, she's not worth it, period.